Every year around this time, a parent writes to me with some version of the same message: "We're trying to decide between the IB, A-Levels, and the American system for our daughter. Which one is actually best?" Usually there's a spreadsheet involved, and usually everyone in the family disagrees.

I've spent years marking IB exam papers as an examiner, alongside advising families choosing between all three systems. So let me save you the spreadsheet: there is no universally "best" curriculum. There's only the one that fits this particular teenager — and knowing the real differences is what makes that decision possible.

What each path actually asks of your teen

The three systems aren't just different in name — they ask something genuinely different of a student.

The question that matters more than "which is best"

The question I actually work through with families isn't about rankings. It's: how does this specific teenager work best? Does your child thrive when juggling several subjects and deadlines, or do they do their best work when they can pour everything into two or three things? Do they already know they love engineering, or are they still genuinely unsure between medicine, design, and economics?

A capable, hard-working teenager can struggle badly in a system that doesn't match how they think — not because they aren't smart enough, but because the structure is fighting them.

The best curriculum isn't the most prestigious one. It's the one your teenager can thrive inside.

What universities actually see

Parents often worry that one path will "look better" to admissions officers. Having sat on the exam-setting side of this, I can tell you: strong universities know how to read all three systems. They're not scoring the name of the diploma — they're scoring what a student did within it. A student with a 40 in the IB, three A*s at A-Level, and a strong AP transcript with a 4.0 GPA are all reading, to an admissions officer, as "this student worked hard and did well." What actually stands out is depth of engagement — genuine interest shown through the Extended Essay, a passion project, a research paper — not which three letters sit on the certificate.

How to decide, practically

A few honest questions to sit down and answer together as a family:

None of these questions have a wrong answer. They just help you see your teenager clearly, which is the only real starting point for a decision like this.

Not sure which path is right for your teenager?

I've guided families through exactly this decision for years, from both sides of the exam room. Book a consultation and let's map out the path that actually fits your child.

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